Postby HadTwins » Mon Apr 22, 2024 12:34 pm
Hello,
Congratulations on your pregnancy!
For my twins pregnancy which also became high risk, I chose based upon 1) the hospital with the highest NICU level as the most important factor then 2) the geographically closest hospital. As my pregnancy became high risk, we wanted to do everything we could to make sure that we would be well placed for quick access to the most experienced and capable neonatal care. A natural delivery, while lovely under the right circumstances, seemed a very distant concern and far less important and maybe not even desirable if it became more important to deliver the babies rapidly due to health concerns .
My twins were both boys and as I learned during the pregnancy, baby males lungs typically mature around 1-2.5 weeks later in pregnancy than female babies. In the event of early labour, getting to the hospital in time for a steroid injection to mature babies’ lungs 24 hours before delivery can make a big difference in reducing health problems and also increased the chances that the hospital could give the mother something to delay labour before it is too late. Also, second labours can progress much faster than first labours.
For much of your second trimester you may look and feel like you are in your third trimester. Since you will be in your second trimester in the summer, if it is a hot one, it maybe worth having access to air conditioning planned if you think you might get uncomfortable in the heat. Also, it maybe worth planning ahead with the babies’ nursery ( they can share a cot initially )and arrangements for your 8 year old so that you’re mostly ready at the end of the second trimester as if it were your third trimester- just in case things get trickier and you have to curtail your activities sooner and possibly even enter hospital before the anticipated birth. This was the advice I was given and it turned out to be very helpful.
Planning for the worst scenario doesn’t make it more likely to happen. You can still be optimistic that you will have a full length term with no issues, but planning will make the stress much lower and possible a better outcome if you do actually encounter difficulties later in the pregnancy.
Wishing you a smooth easy pregnancy and delivery!