Hi,
There is a big difference in an au pair and nanny... even though both can be / are 'live in'
I was an 'au pair' over a decade ago - I went on a cultural exchange overseas - I lived with a family overseas, I had room, board etc - I did childcare duties for them but was paid pocket money etc and whilst I did have some childcare experience before, it was a bit limited in regards to 'in the home experience'
A live in nanny - is a professional who isn't on a 'cultural exchange' and often has quite a lot of childcare experience, knowledge, and skills, often qualifications etc
A live in nanny is paid a proper wage - you are an employer and run PAYE for your nanny
^ unlike an au pair where you are a 'host family'
You can try and find a live in nanny privately - this website often has live in nanny roles, and live in nannies looking in the childcare section of this forum
You can use various other private sites to list an advert as a private family looking for a live in nanny -
http://www.nannyjob.co.uk/submitavacancy
http://www.greatcare.co.uk/post_job.html
you could also try a website called c h I l d c a r e . c o . u k
(spaces put in as this forum often stars out that website )
You could also use a nanny agency - there are many in London
a good place to see some listed agencies and the kinds of live in nanny jobs they have is -
http://www.nannyjob.co.uk/agencies