I agree, I read my last post and thought to myself that I sounded like a prat sometimes I think I would rather be with him than be alone (which makes me sound like more of a prat) the irony being of course that he has not suggested that as an option, so I am just being a prat.
Is he local? mmmmmmmm is three bus stops away considered local :D I hear what you are saying though, secrets like this have a habit of surfacing anyway. I want him in bubs life but I would be lying if I said I wanted her in it, I'm really pissed off at her, god knows why when its him who is the issu...
The SOB told me straight to my face that I would not make a good mother, not under these circumstances...........so apparently I am not worthy of his sperm!
Our baby does change everything and to be honest if there was no baby I would of just told him to sod off but I expect him to be a part of our his/her life, just not sure how to do that if she does not know but having said that I have no intentions of just showing up on the door step, knocking on th...
Thanks for your kind words. I really have to get off the internet as I keep finding stuff that I really do not want to know about, about her, about thier marriage. I fluctuate between wanting to tell her and not, so not to sure what to do about that...............
Not been on here for a while but all bodes well, its taken me this long to stop being so angry. Bubs and I are doing fine and as for him, well guess who just lost his job in the city. I guess that's Karma
My mother said it could be worse, I could be the poor women who actually married him, not sure who I am more pissed at, him for being a charming **** or me for not noticing (and missing him)
I really really want to tell her but resisting my inner **** to do it, the weekend was difficult, I was really angry and upset, threw a few things around the house, calmed down, then went for a facial, threw so more things (mostly his stuff), did a bit of Facebook stalking and then went bed. I just ...
Thanks to all for the comments and support. I'm not going to tell the wife (unless provoked) its his marriage, he can stuff it up all by himself as I figure he cannot keep this a secret forever and I have no intention of becoming the home wrecker in this sad sordid little scenario. As for baby, well...
I just want to thank everyone for their kind words of advice. I'm still angry but not as much no that I have told my mother, who is more than happy to cut his balls off on my behalf (and on behalf of you all and my unborn baby). I have a meeting with a lawyer next week and very much want to have thi...
Thanks, I'm starting to cry now, I don't want to hurt anyone I am just really scared and well pissed off. I am only 10 weeks and not told anyone other than him (and now all of you fine people) I have never been pregnant before and I'm about to turn 36 next week and I know I should get past the 12 we...
I'm tempted to but I really don't want to inflict any pain on another women but I am having all these thoughts of just showing up on his door step and announcing myself. When I told him about the baby, he said that whilst he is sure I would be a good mother, I would only be a good mother with the ri...
Baby not planned, I thought I was well behaved making it to my mid 30's and not having any accidents (my sisters have a number of children in their teens) but this was an accident (but very much wanted though) He has two homes, obviously the one in Battersea is the town house........and I will tell ...
I am just so very angry and whilst I want to tell her, how is that going to solve the situation I find myself in, I have a vision of waddling around there in my third trimester but trying not to be the s**t in this situation. My thought process at the moment is to try and get him to give me a lump s...
He said that he would not leave her for someone like me?????? What an arse. My immediate though of action is to tell his wife but I don't want to do this as I need him to contribute to our baby, its not like he can not afford it, he works in the city and is on a pretty good income. I'm absolutely li...
