Hi Caroline
I had my Son at St Georges and have had my 3 miscarriages 'dealt' with there and I agree the system leaves a lot to be desired. It is really insensitive to be in the same area as all the pregnant women plus seeing everyones face when they come out of the scanning rooms can be traumatic as well.
Because this is my third I asked if they could do tissue testing and they refused! It was never offered to me with my first two miscarriages so I never brought it up. I read a book by Professor Regan from St Mary's Hospital who is a specialist in recurrent miscarriages and she highly recommended getting testing done and to just be told no was really frustrating. Similarly I was never offered any cremation service like other Hospitals offer, I probably wouldn't have done it but it would be nice to be given the option. Friends have also been offered counselling, the most sensitivity I received was being asked if I wanted to leave via the back door